Proverbs 15:32

Read Proverbs 15:32

Helpful Background Information:  

• A “proverb” is just a short, clever saying that provides wisdom of some kind. In the book of Proverbs, we see all the ways that wise people differ from those who are described as foolish. Given Proverbs’ focus on wise living, the book tends to focus on general rules and principles rather than the countless exceptions to that rule. Life is complex and no single book can reasonably address each and every specific scenario where people face difficulty. That’s where the book of Proverbs comes in—it provides more general principles and wisdom for decision making that can be applied in various situations. 

• Over and over in Proverbs, the wise are characterized as those who are receptive to correction and discipline. In Proverbs 15:32, we’re told that those who disregard discipline will only do greater harm to themselves in the long run. In contrast, those who are receptive to correction will come out better on the other side because of it. 

• In Matthew 7, Jesus reiterates how important it is for people to allow their own corruption to be dealt with before they go around trying to “fix” everyone else. A certain level of receptiveness to correction is necessary in all human relationships, but especially in marriage. There are times when this correction comes from other trusted people and there are other times when it comes from God Himself. Regardless, the call is always to take sin seriously and to humbly accept discipline when it comes.

Reflection Questions: 

• In order for marriage to work, why do you think it’s important for both partners to be open to correction?

• What makes receiving correction most difficult?

• In order to receive correction and discipline, you need to be a willing listener. What steps can you take to truly listen to the corrective instruction of those around you this week?

• Close by praying and asking the Holy Spirit to guide you as you grow in this area.