Have I prayed about this?

Am I focused on promoting God’s truth or my own preference?

Am I correcting in a Spirit of gentleness? (Galatians 6:1-2)

Am I open to different/additional facts that could change my perspective?

Is this just a hit and run or am I willing to see this through with them?

Do I avoid using extreme language like “you never” or “you always”?

Can I be concise or am I just wanting to “unload”? 

Am I condemning or helping them move towards conviction and repentance?

Am I pointing them towards the Gospel or am I just focused on their sin?

Am I maintaining a posture of humility by asking: “Do you have any concerns with my attitude or approach in how I’ve brought these things to your attention?”